How much do we feel in control of the events that takes place in our life? Some believe that its them who are responsible for whatever happens in our lives while there are some who believe that its not them but destiny.
Those who think that whatever happens to them is all because of fate.. in a way try to not face the fact that its them who is responsible. They dont want to be realistic.On the other hand those who think that their success or failure depends solely on the efforts and not on luck are generally people who have confidence on their abilities. They are not shy from taking responsibility. Those who fall under this category are hardworking and are always open to take help so as to improve.
Those who believe as whatever happens its all because of luck...will never work hard. On the other hand those who believe in their abilities and take the responsibilities will always work hard. They will never complain. These kind of people are more open to new ideas and always eager to learn. On the contrary those who rely on fate are reluctant to seek help for problems as they think they anyways have no control over them. This can lead to more problems for them.
Belief in yourself is the most important thing in life as this is what gives one the power to fight against odds. Its also an important part a person character. One has to be realistic too as that luck does play a role but to some extent. There are somethings in life that is beyond are control but to succumb under those situations is sign of weakness. One should try what he or she can do best. If one tends to think that his efforts will only get him where he wants to, then you tend to become neurotic.
God also helps those who help themselves and not those who simply rely on him.
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